The ACHE from a Heartbreak
Many of us are suffering immensely from a very bad break up! Here's how you can recover in three simple steps.
1.) Analyze
2.) Accept 3.) Advance
Analyze the situation!
Accept the situation!
Advance from the situation!
If you want to get over a break up, you can't be afraid to accept the truth. You can't lie to yourself about the situation to make it more appealing and acceptable for yourself. You have to swallow that pill reality offers you and believe me it's not easy. When experiencing an heartbreak it seems as if your world is crashing down and everyone around you don't seem to understand. The pain feels unbearable as your heart continues to break into pieces inside your chest. The memories are like contractions pushing the babies out your eyes. The strains from such pain causes you to drain in immense gains of emptiness.
To get over a heartbreak you must go through a heartbreak, meaning you have to allow it to happen without altering the situation to be more sweet for you. Take time to comprehend and understand your actions and others as well. Don't misled yourself with false hope and don't disguise the truth.
Accept that they haven't called, no need to call. Accept those words that were never "meant" to be said but somehow they reached your ears. Accept those actions that they never "intended" to hurt you with but it did. Accept the times they left you crying. Accept the times they left you dying. Accept the times you poured yourself out into their cup even though it was a hole. Accept that they aren't there and they don't deserve to be. Accept the memories and lose the desire to make more. Accept everything as is, don't alter anything because if it was the way you think then it would be and since it's not STOP LYING TO YOURSELF!
They aren't coming back.
They never loved you. They never cared. They never adored you. They played you. They used you. They hurt you. They broke you.
But you didn't lose anything but time you gained knowledge of how you'd never want to be treated and learned the signs to look out for. You gained more self awareness and wisdom for years to come. Don't let the heartbreak keep breaking you . Release the pain and Evolve from the gains. Don't live your life in pain!
